Living Life to the Fullest...

September 24, 2009

Prime Time Di ba?







posted by Borj at 9:29 PM 0 comments

September 23, 2009

Im a FLIRT???

OMG Borj... your such a FLIRT...

this is what my friend told me... when we were about to watch a movie...

honestly i don't know why they said that... perhaps they have this impression about me that I'm really a flirt...

is asking a common friend to go out and have couple of beers considered flirting? or perhaps asking someone for a cup of coffee coz your bored as hell and needs someone to talk to also included? or simply borrowing a DVD or texting considered to be a form or flirting?


maybe I'm just so naive or sooooo insensitive that others see the things i do as FLIRTING. hmmm i don't know... and i don't care...

all i can say is that if they think I'm doing the things that I'm doing because i want to have an intimate moment with them, hahahaha sorry to burst your bubble. But that's not how I roll.
posted by Borj at 8:09 AM 4 comments

RIGHT SPEECH

There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "A speech will either prosper or ruin a nation." Many relationships break off because of wrong speech. When a couple is too close with each other,we always forget mutual respect and courtesy. We may say anything without considering if it would hurt the other party.

A friend and her millionaire husband visited their construction site. A worker who wore a helmet saw her and shouted,"Hi, Emily! Remember me? We used to date in the secondary school." On the way home, her millionaire husband teased her, "Luckily you married me.Otherwise you will be the wife of a construction worker." She answered ,"You should appreciate that you married me. Otherwise, he will be the millionaire and not you." Frequently exchanging these remarks plants the seed for a bad relationship. It's like a broken egg - cannot be reversed.





posted by Borj at 4:24 AM 0 comments

September 21, 2009

Feel good Film

i cant wait for saturday...






2 more Pinoy films that for me is worth watching.... hope this time I wont be watching this alone...
posted by Borj at 9:28 AM 0 comments

WOWOWEE to Public Office...

honestly I'm not really a big fan of this show, maybe because I don't see the sincerity of the host or perhaps the way he is treating other hosts and dancers in the show... but i have to admit that a lot of people loves him, despite all the issues.

and after some time being away from the show, after the incident during the burial of former Pres. Cory Aquino. Willie returns to the show with a bang... bringing hopes and happiness to everyone.

Now whats this i hear.. Willie is running for politics? come on... i know that his show is popular to every pinoys, may it be in the Philippines or in the other countries. but i don't think that's enough reason to run for public office... what is he going to do? make every one dance in the senate? or make them play the hep hep hooray game?

I know that the intention to help is there... but please there are alot of ways to help... and running for office should be his last priority.
posted by Borj at 8:07 AM 0 comments

September 20, 2009

In My Life

Normally i would always wait for the Pirated copy before i would watch a Tagalog film... and i can still remember the number of Tagalog films that i actually watched on the big screen.
Tanging Ina
Tanging Ina nyong lahat
yes... these are the only Tagalog Film that i have watched... so far...
but I can say that the recent Tagalog movie i watched was WORTH it... now i know why my mom is a die hard Vilmanian...


at first i was a bit hesitant about watching this movie... but couple of friends from work decided that we have to watch this film all together. And i was convinced. i booked the ticket online in advance. I also remember that i told Jenny that i want to sit beside her coz im afraid that if i sit beside Jona, i would be carried away if she starts to cry... but like the movie there's a sudden twist on what was supposed to be the seating arrangement. It turned out that i was seated beside Mark and Dhon, well enough of the seating arrangement and going forward with the film. It was a comedy mixed with mellow drama and more comedy plus more drama. And as the movie went on... people were making a lot of noise and reacting to what is happening in the film, and when i glanced to where Jenny is seated, i was shocked to see her crying... man... she was the first in our cry, followed by.... (sad to say not me. but the rest of the people I was with - don't want to name names, co'z i might get into trouble if i do so)

well anyway, i can say that i was also touched by the film. Its good thing that i didn't shed a tear... (like what my friend predicted that would happen) but i can't deny the fact that i can relate to the film.


the part of Luis asking for forgiveness from Vilma for dissapointing her again because he is sick. and Luis telling Vilma how she was never contented on the things that he was able to accomplish.


Perhaps i can say that my parents never took me seriously nor see me as a different person, but rather see me as a shadow of my brother, who is a biggest dissapointment for them.


Perhaps maybe like the film i took the opporunity to work in Cebu not only to earn money but to get away from my mom, who never seized to see me as a dissapointment. Knowing that im gay, and is not interested to become an Engr like everyone in the family.


or was it that i was also acting like my brother... honestly i don't know...

but all I can is that ''im sorry mom... I can't be the person who you want me to be... co'z i know that i won't be happy''




Mom I Love You...
posted by Borj at 8:27 AM 2 comments

September 18, 2009

Lovers Quarrel Kalye Style

on my way home from Gimik i cant help but notice two guys arguing on the road... its really funny co'z i never seen two guys shout at each other... especially in a public place... and when i say Public Place it's near Mango Square (Gimik Place in Cebu).

disclaimer: i didn't mean to eavesdrop on the conversation but this what i have so far

G1: ingani man gud ni sya, dugay man gud ka mag tubag gud.. unya nag decide na lang ko na magkuyug nila... tapos iya ko gi pletehan sa taxi and nag kita mi... (it's like this, i took you some time to reply, so i decided to go with them, beside he paid for the Taxi fare when we meet)

G2: di man inana ang issue... kanang cge man gud ka kiat didto... sa atubangan pa jud nako (i have no issues with that... its because you keep on flirting at the bar... even if I'm right in front of you)

G1: kiat bah... nag sayaw ra man ko... (flirt?.. i was just dancing)

perhaps the second guy realized that other people can hear them... they decided to walk....

again i didn't mean to follow them... but honestly i was also going to the same direction they are going...

i cant hear most of their conversation while they were walking... but i can sense that G1 is giving out a hell of explanation to G2...

and just before i took the turn going home... G2 gave G1 a SLAP on the face...i was shocked by the sound it made... man if that happened to me... i don't think i can handle it...

so i decided to walk pass them and pretend i didn't hear the slapping sound or saw what happened... after passing them for about 20 to 30 meters, i cant help it but had to look back... i saw G2 with his arms around G1's shoulder and kissing him...

now that's a scene worth watching... 2 guys kiss and make up after a short but exciting Lover Quarrel...
posted by Borj at 12:13 PM 0 comments

September 17, 2009

Research confirms that drinking gives you the same benefits yoga does !!!

Savasana
Position of total relaxation.
Balasana
Position that brings the sensation of peace and calm.
Setu Bandha Sarvangasana
This position calms the brain and heals tired legs.

Marjayasana
Position stimulates the midirift area and the spinal comumn.


Halasana
Excellent for back pain and insomnia.





Dolphin
Excellent for the shoulder area, thorax, legs, and arms.




Salambhasana
Great exercise to stimulate the lumbar area, legs, and arms.




Ananda Balasana
This position is great for massaging the hip area.



Malasana
This position, for ankles and back muscles.



posted by Borj at 10:58 AM 0 comments

September 16, 2009

wish things were as easy as they seem...

why is it that is so easy to decide for others and yet so difficult to decide for yourself? could it be that we only consider what we see that is good for the other person and doesnt look at the effect of our suggestions? or are we just simply supporting what our friend has decided? honestly i have been asking myself why i can give solutions to other peoples problems and yet can find a tiny solution for mine?

there are alot of things that i have placed on hold... simply because i cant decide on what to do...

family
work
school

these are just some of the things that i want to accomplish before i would reach the end...

hope that it won't be too late if ever i have the courage to do the things that some of my friends have done...
posted by Borj at 11:09 AM 0 comments

lost again...

when will i ever learn? that im not that lucky when it comes to this... or perhaps im looking at the wrong place...

or perhaps i just assumed that there is something between us... i thought i have mastered this game... again im wrong... have i fallen on the same OLD trap?

i just cant shake the feeling that im the reason why you sent me this msg...

but if this is what you want... for us not to be even friends, then i respect that...

there is nothing i can do but move on...

posted by Borj at 10:58 AM 0 comments